--- title: The Success Blog (2) description: Everything you need to know how to be successful. (2) --- [![es, esq.-logo (yellow)](https://www.es-esq.com/hs-fs/hubfs/es%2c%20esq.-logo%20(yellow).png?width=50&height=50&name=es%2c%20esq.-logo%20(yellow).png "es, esq.-logo (yellow)")](https://www.es-esq.com) ![Oregon Coast cropped](https://www.es-esq.com/hubfs/Oregon%20Coast%20cropped.jpeg "Oregon Coast cropped") # THE SUCCESS BLOG ### YOUR ONE-STOP RESOURCE ON HOW TO QUIET ALL THE NOISE Sep 23, 2020 2:19:11 PM #### [Control: To Have and to Hold](https://www.es-esq.com/blog/control-to-have-and-to-hold) [![](https://www.es-esq.com/hubfs/Stock%20images/Quality%20Control%20-%20Red%20Text%20on%20Cars%20Shift%20Knob%20on%20Black%20Background.%20Close%20Up%20View.%20Selective%20Focus..jpeg) ](https://www.es-esq.com/blog/control-to-have-and-to-hold) ### How to gain a little more calm and a lot less chaos by understanding have vs. lack of control. A client of mine recently said me to that his deepest, truest desire was to have financial freedom. When I probed him further about what he meant by "financial freedom", he explain that it meant to have "complete and total control over my life: I decide what I do, when I do, how I do." It's this topic of *control *I want to explore. [Read More](https://www.es-esq.com/blog/control-to-have-and-to-hold) Jun 26, 2020 11:24:48 AM #### [Words Matter](https://www.es-esq.com/blog/words-matter) [![](https://www.es-esq.com/hubfs/E08F1295-C49A-4F03-92F3-6158BE4EA711.jpeg) ](https://www.es-esq.com/blog/words-matter) ### How a Simple Word Can Make All the Difference Words matter. Especially when it comes to your brand.  [Read More](https://www.es-esq.com/blog/words-matter) [**](https://www.es-esq.com/blog/page/1) [All posts](https://www.es-esq.com/blog/all) Needham MA [info@es-esq.com](mailto:info@es-esq.com) Copyright 2026 [es, esq.,llc](https://www.es-esq.com) | Site designed by [HubSpot](https://www.hubspot.com) [**](https://www.es-esq.com/blog/page/2#)